I have themed Sundays to be "work on your marriage day" day. Shelden and I have noticed that Sunday is the day we usually have less grace with each other and are quick to get impatient with each other over small little things that really in the grand scheme of things do not matter. One would think that it would be opposite on Sunday's because you go to church and hangout with family, and are supposed to be "more aware" of God's presence right? One would think that it would be a little bit easier to have grace on your spouse and let things go, or be in harmony with each other because it is deemed a "fun day or relaxing day". But not for the Flowers! :) And you know I have realized it is because of where God has us in our lives, it is a constant battle between the flesh and the Spirit. Everyday there is a battle, but because we do choose to go to church and serve and worship God without any distractions on Sunday, our flesh tries to rise up and put up a bigger fight, thus us not communicating in the best way possible. But it's funny, Shelden and I always seem to recognize the struggle with our selfish impatient attitudes towards each other and we walk through it, coming out stronger as a couple. So take THAT flesh! Take THAT Satan! Now we are ready for the the little battles that will come up during the time our attitudes need to be that of a servant.(which is always...) Maybe that is why God tells us to put on His armor everyday?
"Finally, be STRONG in the Lord and in the strength of his might.
Put on the WHOLE armor of God,
that you may be able to STAND against the schemes of the devil."
Ephesians 6:10,11 (esv)
Sundays=work on your marriage day...and I am okay with that. It only makes us stronger as a couple and draws us closer to God who put us together for a reason. We've chosen to not succumb to the pathetic attempts of the flesh to tear us apart, instead we've decided to stand together and become more like Christ.
I love my life with Shelden, God has blessed us beyond what we can even imagine. Dang, I feel blessed to be his daughter....
:)
*he is all set in his armor...hehe*